Being a Listener or Questioner, Nor Both !!

The guy, who took the seminar was literally begging.

"Anybody, please ask questions!!!"

"Do you want any clarifications???"

"Any queries!!??"

There seem to come no response from the audience. He looked at the left hand-side audience and asked, "Anybody,questions???". Everybody were sitting like, "Anybody was screaming here???!!".

After getting are-you-talking-to-me kind of response from the left side group, he turned his attention to the right hand-side audience. This time, he did not want to face the same reaction. So, he pointed out some person and asked, "Ask me a question. You must be having lots of questions. ". That guy, who was pointed out, started talking to his neighbor, though he had not talked to him earlier.

See, this is the scene which we often watch,on seminar halls and office meetings.This can be called as "Listening Mode" of brain. If you think about it, this is a kind of mode, where only the listening flag will be set to true. Our brain cannot generate any questions at this moment. Even if it generates questions, our mouth will not help bringing them out.

There was, at this bus stand in my hometown, a girl was standing. A man, as he was in hurry, hit her lightly. The crowd that came from nowhere, started attacking him with a lot of questions. They gave no time for him to explain.

"Brother, one second, please hear me!!"- Its him !

"How the hell you can hit a young girl standing alone??"

"Do you think there is nobody to question you?? "

"Entha ooru da??"

"What in the world is waiting for you, you say, you hit her as you were in a hurry???"

"Do you want to count the rods in jail door[kambi ennanuma??] ??? "

The questions will be in 100:1(questioners:victim) ratio. Finally, the boy would not have got a chance to say the reason as, "I lost my only bus idiots because of your dumb questions!!"

This can be classified as "Questioning mode or Attacking mode" of brain, where the brain's listening flag will be set to false and the mouth's functioning will become more. So, nobody can stop it. The mouth will keep on questioning,till the one trying to listen run away from the place. Sometimes, even if the listener runs, they will start chasing and shoot all the questions they have. This is a very dangerous mode when the listener is solo and the many brains are in attacking mode.

As I was thinking about these two extreme modes of brain, I wondered why not to bring in some balancing mechanism, to use the resources (mouth and the brain) fruitfully. Yes, Why not??!!

I am gonna put forth a question in the next seminar I attend. ;) :P :P

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